Gambling is the wagering of something of value (money, property, or other items) on an event whose outcome is determined at least in part by chance. It is often considered a form of entertainment, but there are significant risks involved in gambling and it can lead to serious consequences.
Most people gamble for enjoyment and participate in social activities with friends or family. However, a small group of individuals become severely involved in their gambling and experience negative personal, family, and financial effects as a result. This type of problem is called compulsive gambling.
Getting help
There are a number of ways to get help for gambling problems including individual and family therapy, marriage, career, and credit counseling. It is also important to seek help for any underlying mood disorders that may have contributed to or been made worse by the compulsive gambling behavior.
Seeking professional help is a sign of strength and is often the first step towards recovery. It is also possible to join a support group like Gamblers Anonymous, which is modeled after Alcoholics Anonymous. A member of the group will be assigned a “sponsor,” someone who has recovered from a gambling addiction, and will provide guidance and encouragement to other members.
It is also helpful to reach out to other family members and friends who do not gamble. This can help prevent a person from going to casinos or online betting sites alone, and it can also help them make new friends with people who don’t share the same interest in gambling. It is also helpful to find other ways to relieve unpleasant feelings, such as stress or boredom, instead of gambling. Examples include exercising, playing games with friends who don’t gamble, and spending time with children or grandchildren.
Financial problems can contribute to a gambling disorder and many people struggle to manage the bills. This can lead to debts accumulating – pay day loans can be particularly damaging, as they have high interest rates. People can even end up stealing money from loved ones or businesses in a desperate attempt to clear their debts.
It can be extremely difficult to cope with a loved one’s gambling addiction. It is important to remember that you are not alone – many families have experienced problem gambling and there is help available. It is also important to set boundaries in managing money, review bank and credit card statements regularly, and consider putting someone else in charge of household finances. If you are struggling with suicidal thoughts, please do not hesitate to seek help immediately. Support usually helps reduce these thoughts and treatment is very effective.